So for the past 6 weeks I have been watching the
Not A Fan Episodes on youtube. Now for those of you that don't know Not A Fan is a book by
Kyle Idleman that discusses the difference between being a fan and follower of Jesus Christ. I have read the book and took some of it to heart and have watched the first 5 episodes and kinda sorta payed attention. However it was as I was sitting here watching the 6th and final episode that it really got me to thinking.
How do I want people to view me. If I were to die today what would people say about my life. He had a fun life? He skydived and kayaked? He partied and had a good time? Are these the things I want people to say about me? The Not A Fan episodes follow the story of a man who has just lost his life to a heart attack and his journey from fan to follower and the funeral.
In one of my classes this semester, EDM310, when had to make like a 20 second video with our sentence on it. Basically we had to stand in front of a camera and say what the sentence used to describe our lives was. I thought a lot about it but in the end I choose "He lived adventurous with no regrets." You know at that time I thought it was a pretty good sentence. Then I saw the Not A Fan episode, then not long after that a song by Emerson Drive called
A Good Man came on my spotify. I got to thinking and my mind went back to this project.
"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins"
1st Peter 4:8
1 John 4:11 tells us "Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another."
These verses are ever important to me. "Above all, love each other." Above all....most importantly...love each other. How many times do we really love each other. How many times do we let tiny things overcome our love for each other. Race, gender, age, religious affiliation, sexual orientation? "Love each other." That doesn't mean love someone exactly like me, or I can't love you because you're black or gay or your not from the south. It means LOVE!
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Right after Christmas in 2008 I got a call from a good friend back home in Georgia that his Paw Paw Sherrer had passed away. I had known this man literally my entire life, I had spent summers at his house with Dewey and more time in the pool than I could remember. I was heartbroken, this man was like a grandfather to me since I never got to see mine. I made the trip up for the funeral on New Years eve and when I got to the church I was shocked. This massive church that set well over 1000 people was packed. This man touched so many lives. I had the privilege of being with the family before the memorial service and the stories we were hearing were amazing. This man had shown love to so many people and people remembered that. Usually people do not go to the graveside for burial, yet here the procession was over a mile long to get to the cemetery! I had recently bought a cd for Rodney Atkins called "It's America" and on that cd is a song called
When It's My Time hint. you should listen to it.
When I die I want that to be my sentence, that "Above all else, he loved." Life is too short for us to judge people. That doesn't mean we can't disagree with someone, that disagreement doesn't give us permission to hate and that we love through that. When it's your time what do you want people to say? Do you want people to be made better by knowing you? Or do you want them at your funeral just to make sure you're really dead? I would prefer the first honestly! I want people to know that I went to Heaven when I die. I don't want them to guess, I don't want people to talk about the things I did that involved adventures when I die. I want them to talk about how I loved above all else. Now it is my time to make the changes so that people can see that. What do you want your sentence to be? That you dedicated your life to serving others, or that you were a self serving jerk?